Need Advice

[Timmy corsa B]

Ok Well one week ago me and my girl friend who i have been with for quite some time had a shock that she was pregnant.
we was being carefull she was on the pill etc etc
we have had two weeks talking about it and over many arguments and lil niggles we have decided to keep it
me and my gf dont live together.
she has told her family about it and there ok ish with it just dont relli wanna see me (oops)
and only my brother knows.
I think my mum is gunna go mental at me
any one know how to i suppose break it to her gently lol

[kie-1200sxi-shed]

walk straight in a the room and tell her shes gunna be a nan. or leave a card for her telling her about it

[chrish4161]

If the girl want to live with you and you also want it then marriage is the right solution but nobody want to live then do abortion and go to your own ways. Because if you can't happy with each other if you don't want to be. So take her to the silent place and clear up everything. I know solution will be come.

[rems]

if you and your gf are happy together then just say to your mum that your going to be a dad and say that you will do the best for the child when its born and take care of it and if your missus can move in with you and your mum and you will both pay house keep

i would try get it over and done with as the more that you hold it in and dont tell her the harder it will be and the more likely she will find out from somebody else, you never know your mum maybe happy for you but for the first month or so she could be poo

1 question................not meaning to burst your bubble or anything but are you sure its yours? i dont mean to be harsh but you said that she is on the pill and you were careful, its one of those things you never know

but just stay positive and have you head up high and just tell your mum

[JonX2]

Are you working? Thats the biggest thing you should think about, being able to support your missus and baby. If you can then just tell your mam. She might go a bit mental at first but she'll get over it. If your both happy bout it and wanna keep it then i'm sure your mam will realise you'll do your best to give the kid a good upbringing.

[Timmy corsa B]

yeh i work full time and yes its deffo mine lol my gf wouldnt cheat on me lol
we r together and want it to be that way lol

my mum now knows lol
just gotta tell me dad lol
and surprisingly
my mum was cool with it